1. Be realistic with each other.
Do not try to change your partner into someone who you want. Let's face reality. Do not expect your partner so Pamela Anderson or Brad Pitt! APAP love their spouse. There is something more that is owned by your spouse that is not owned by anyone in this world!
Always speak openly but still with respect
For men this is not an easy thing to remember men prefer silence when solving problems. But she was different. Do not make their own assumptions about your partner's feelings. Learn to express your feelings to the right so that your partner is becoming increasingly easier to understand when you are angry, hurt, offended or happy. This works with the girls. If you stop communicating from the heart that is the beginning of a farewell.
Do something interesting together
Look for something you can do together. You can do your favorite sport together. Or doing a hobby that you're both happy. Enjoy while doing so. It could be that you're both pretty watch VCD in the family room! Or maybe the road holding hands in the mall like were dating. Be careful if you prefer to spend more time with your friends than with your partner. It was a sign of poor.
Do not be too perfectionist
Learn to accept what was done by your partner even if it is only half of what you want him to do. Often we require our partner to always squeeze the toothpaste from the bottom. When he flicked it from anywhere, "The important thing right out the toothpaste!" He argued, try to give you some leeway. In a relationship there are some things that we should be able to give and accept each other.
Show your love
For those of you guys try to bring home your wife favorite flower. It could also be brown or a romantic dinner together or whatever she likes. For women you treat your spouse to cook his favorite food is special or give a Valentine card or something that he wanted but had not bought. If you know the language of love, give continuous dominance. There are 5 languages of love which one is the dominant language of our love. They are a physical touch, words of support, quality time, service, gifts. Shows the continuous sense of care your loved one is a very pleasant thing.
Respect each other and respect each other.
Do not make jokes about the hair or the skin of your partner in front of others or children. Although purely meant just kidding but his subconscious mind can catch a different purpose. This could be undermined his self-confidence. Love is to respect one another's feelings and being sensitive to the feelings of our partner.
Bury the past.
Stop bringing up the negative past. There is no one who wants to be reminded of everything that made him feel ashamed. Whatever has happened has been completed!
Eliminate jealousy.
Each of us has a sense of discomfort at the beginning of a relationship but do not let the discomfort and insecurity turned into jealousy. Jealousy like a poison that slowly spreads throughout the joints of your relationship. Believe your partner. Love is to have confidence in your partner.
Keep your commitment to one another.
Do not make a promise that we are not able to feel was infested. If forced then this will reduce respect our spouse. Maintain the trust and mutual respect is a commitment of a healthy relationship. If our spouse begins to feel that he is important for us not then be prepared separately loses his heart.
Be honest.
Honestly it does not mean to say how ugly and amburadulnya face your partner while she had been asleep. The purpose of honesty here is honesty to express our deepest feelings. If you feel angry to say that we are feeling angry. If you feel hurt badly to say that we feel hurt. Say a quiet manner without yelling. If we can not be honest with our spouse and to whom we should be honest? Love is about being true to yourself and your partner.
Do not try to change your partner into someone who you want. Let's face reality. Do not expect your partner so Pamela Anderson or Brad Pitt! APAP love their spouse. There is something more that is owned by your spouse that is not owned by anyone in this world!
Always speak openly but still with respect
For men this is not an easy thing to remember men prefer silence when solving problems. But she was different. Do not make their own assumptions about your partner's feelings. Learn to express your feelings to the right so that your partner is becoming increasingly easier to understand when you are angry, hurt, offended or happy. This works with the girls. If you stop communicating from the heart that is the beginning of a farewell.
Do something interesting together
Look for something you can do together. You can do your favorite sport together. Or doing a hobby that you're both happy. Enjoy while doing so. It could be that you're both pretty watch VCD in the family room! Or maybe the road holding hands in the mall like were dating. Be careful if you prefer to spend more time with your friends than with your partner. It was a sign of poor.
Do not be too perfectionist
Learn to accept what was done by your partner even if it is only half of what you want him to do. Often we require our partner to always squeeze the toothpaste from the bottom. When he flicked it from anywhere, "The important thing right out the toothpaste!" He argued, try to give you some leeway. In a relationship there are some things that we should be able to give and accept each other.
Show your love
For those of you guys try to bring home your wife favorite flower. It could also be brown or a romantic dinner together or whatever she likes. For women you treat your spouse to cook his favorite food is special or give a Valentine card or something that he wanted but had not bought. If you know the language of love, give continuous dominance. There are 5 languages of love which one is the dominant language of our love. They are a physical touch, words of support, quality time, service, gifts. Shows the continuous sense of care your loved one is a very pleasant thing.
Respect each other and respect each other.
Do not make jokes about the hair or the skin of your partner in front of others or children. Although purely meant just kidding but his subconscious mind can catch a different purpose. This could be undermined his self-confidence. Love is to respect one another's feelings and being sensitive to the feelings of our partner.
Bury the past.
Stop bringing up the negative past. There is no one who wants to be reminded of everything that made him feel ashamed. Whatever has happened has been completed!
Eliminate jealousy.
Each of us has a sense of discomfort at the beginning of a relationship but do not let the discomfort and insecurity turned into jealousy. Jealousy like a poison that slowly spreads throughout the joints of your relationship. Believe your partner. Love is to have confidence in your partner.
Keep your commitment to one another.
Do not make a promise that we are not able to feel was infested. If forced then this will reduce respect our spouse. Maintain the trust and mutual respect is a commitment of a healthy relationship. If our spouse begins to feel that he is important for us not then be prepared separately loses his heart.
Be honest.
Honestly it does not mean to say how ugly and amburadulnya face your partner while she had been asleep. The purpose of honesty here is honesty to express our deepest feelings. If you feel angry to say that we are feeling angry. If you feel hurt badly to say that we feel hurt. Say a quiet manner without yelling. If we can not be honest with our spouse and to whom we should be honest? Love is about being true to yourself and your partner.
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