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1. Be realistic with each other.

Do not try to change your partner into someone who you want. Let's face reality. Do not expect your partner so Pamela Anderson or Brad Pitt! APAP love their spouse. There is something more that is owned by your spouse that is not owned by anyone in this world!
Always speak openly but still with respect

For men this is not an easy thing to remember men prefer silence when solving problems. But she was different. Do not make their own assumptions about your partner's feelings. Learn to express your feelings to the right so that your partner is becoming increasingly easier to understand when you are angry, hurt, offended or happy. This works with the girls. If you stop communicating from the heart that is the beginning of a farewell.
Do something interesting together

Look for something you can do together. You can do your favorite sport together. Or doing a hobby that you're both happy. Enjoy while doing so. It could be that you're both pretty watch VCD in the family room! Or maybe the road holding hands in the mall like were dating. Be careful if you prefer to spend more time with your friends than with your partner. It was a sign of poor.
Do not be too perfectionist

Learn to accept what was done by your partner even if it is only half of what you want him to do. Often we require our partner to always squeeze the toothpaste from the bottom. When he flicked it from anywhere, "The important thing right out the toothpaste!" He argued, try to give you some leeway. In a relationship there are some things that we should be able to give and accept each other.
Show your love

For those of you guys try to bring home your wife favorite flower. It could also be brown or a romantic dinner together or whatever she likes. For women you treat your spouse to cook his favorite food is special or give a Valentine card or something that he wanted but had not bought. If you know the language of love, give continuous dominance. There are 5 languages ​​of love which one is the dominant language of our love. They are a physical touch, words of support, quality time, service, gifts. Shows the continuous sense of care your loved one is a very pleasant thing.
Respect each other and respect each other.

Do not make jokes about the hair or the skin of your partner in front of others or children. Although purely meant just kidding but his subconscious mind can catch a different purpose. This could be undermined his self-confidence. Love is to respect one another's feelings and being sensitive to the feelings of our partner.
Bury the past.

Stop bringing up the negative past. There is no one who wants to be reminded of everything that made him feel ashamed. Whatever has happened has been completed!
Eliminate jealousy.

Each of us has a sense of discomfort at the beginning of a relationship but do not let the discomfort and insecurity turned into jealousy. Jealousy like a poison that slowly spreads throughout the joints of your relationship. Believe your partner. Love is to have confidence in your partner.
Keep your commitment to one another.

Do not make a promise that we are not able to feel was infested. If forced then this will reduce respect our spouse. Maintain the trust and mutual respect is a commitment of a healthy relationship. If our spouse begins to feel that he is important for us not then be prepared separately loses his heart.
Be honest.

Honestly it does not mean to say how ugly and amburadulnya face your partner while she had been asleep. The purpose of honesty here is honesty to express our deepest feelings. If you feel angry to say that we are feeling angry. If you feel hurt badly to say that we feel hurt. Say a quiet manner without yelling. If we can not be honest with our spouse and to whom we should be honest? Love is about being true to yourself and your partner.

1. Realistislah terhadap satu sama lain.

Janganlah mencoba untuk mengubah pasangan anda menjadi seseorang yang anda inginkan. Marilah hadapi kenyataan. Janganlah harapkan pasangan anda jadi Pamela Anderson ataupun Brad Pitt! Cintai pasangan apap adanya. Ada sesuatu yang lebih yang dimiliki oleh pasangan anda yang tak dimiliki oleh siapapun di dunia ini!
Selalu bicara secara terbuka namun tetap dengan respek

Bagi pria ini bukanlah suatu hal yang mudah mengingat pria lebih suka diam ketika memecahkan masalah. Namun wanita sungguh berbeda. Janganlah membuat asumsi sendiri mengenai perasaan pasangan anda. Belajarlah untuk mengekspresikan perasaan anda dengan tepat sehingga pasangan anda menjadi makin mudah memahami ketika anda marah, terluka, tersinggung ataupun bahagia. This works with the girls. Jika anda berhenti berkomunikasi dari hati ke hati itulah awal dari sebuah perpisahan.
Lakukan sesuatu yang menarik secara bersama-sama

Carilah sesuatu yang bisa anda lakukan bersama-sama. Anda bisa melakukan olahraga favorit bersama-sama. Ataupun melakukan suatu hobi yang anda berdua sama-sama senang. Nikmati ketika melakukan hal itu. Bisa jadi anda berdua cukup menonton VCD di ruang keluarga! Atau mungkin jalan bergandengan tangan di mall seperti masih pacaran. Berhati-hatilah jika anda lebih suka menghabiskan lebih banyak waktu dengan sahabat anda daripada dengan pasangan anda. Itu sebuah tanda yang kurang baik.
Jangan terlalu perfeksionis

Belajarlah untuk menerima apa yang dilakukan oleh pasangan anda walaupun itu hanyalah separo dari yang anda ingin dia lakukan. Seringkali kita menuntut pasangan kita untuk selalu memencet pasta gigi dari bagian paling bawah. Ketika ia memencetnya dari manapun, “Yang penting kan keluar pasta giginya!” demikian pendapatnya, cobalah untuk memakluminya. Dalam sebuah relasi ada beberapa hal dimana kita harus bisa saling bisa memberi dan menerima.
Tunjukkan cinta anda

Bagi anda para pria cobalah membawa pulang bunga kesukaan istri anda. Bisa juga coklat atau makan malam romantis bersama atau apapun yang dia sukai. Bagi anda para wanita manjakan pasangan anda dengan memasakkan makanan favoritnya secara spesial atau berikan kartu Valentine atau sesuatu yang dia inginkan tetapi belum sempat terbeli. Jika anda mengetahui bahasa cinta dominannya maka berikan secara kontinu. Ada 5 bahasa cinta dimana salah satu adalah bahasa cinta dominan kita. Kelimanya adalah sentuhan fisik, kata-kata pendukung, waktu berkualitas, pelayanan, hadiah. Menunjukkan secara kontinu rasa peduli pada orang yang anda cintai adalah suatu hal yang sangat menyenangkan.
Saling menghargai dan menghormati satu sama lain.

Janganlah membuat lelucon tentang rambut atau kulit pasangan anda di depan orang lain atau anak-anak. Meskipun maksudnya murni hanya bercanda tetapi pikiran bawah sadarnya bisa menangkap maksud yang berbeda. Hal ini bisa jadi menggerogoti rasa percaya dirinya. Mencintai adalah menghargai perasaan satu sama lain dan menjadi peka terhadap perasaan pasangan kita.
Kuburlah masa lalu.

Berhentilah mengungkit-ungkit masa lalu yang negatif. Tak ada seorang pun yang ingin diingatkan tentang segala sesuatu yang membuatnya merasa malu. Apapun yang sudah terjadi telah selesai!
Hilangkan kecemburuan.

Setiap dari kita mempunyai rasa ketidaknyamanan pada sebuah permulaan relasi namun jangan biarkan rasa tidak nyaman dan tidak aman tersebut berubah menjadi kecemburuan. Kecemburuan seperti racun yang secara perlahan menyebar ke seluruh sendi-sendi relasi anda. Percayailah pasangan anda. Mencintai adalah memiliki rasa percaya pada pasangan.
Jaga komitmen satu sama lain.

Janganlah membuat sebuah janji yang kita rasakan tak mampu untuk dipenuh. Jika dipaksakan maka ini akan mengurangi respek pasangan kita. Menjaga kepercayaan dan saling menghormati adalah bentuk komitmen dari sebuah relasi yang sehat. Jika pasangan kita mulai merasakan bahwa ia tak penting bagi kita maka bersiaplah utnuk kehilangan hatinya.
Jujurlah.

Jujur itu bukan berarti harus mengatakan bagaimana jelek dan amburadulnya wajah pasangan anda saat ia baru bangun tidur. Maksud dari kejujuran di sini adalah kejujuran untuk mengungkapkan perasaan terdalam kita. Jika merasa marah katakan bahwa kita sedang merasa marah. Jika merasa terlukan katakan bahwa kita merasa terluka. Katakanlah dengan sikap tenang tanpa teriak-teriak. Jika kita tidak bisa jujur pada pasangan kita lalu kepada siapa kita harus jujur? Mencintai adalah tentang menjadi jujur pada diri sendiri dan pasangan.

1. Sincerity

Is ranked as the most preferred properties by everyone. Sincerity makes others feel safe and valued, because it sure will not be fooled or deceived. Sincere people always tell the truth, do not like making it up, pretend, make excuses or distort the facts. The principle is "Yes and No on the above Yes No". Of course it would be ideal if the dove-soft sincerity matched by the ingenuity of a snake. With so sincere innocence that can not be self-defeating.

2. In contrast to low self-esteem which is a weakness, it reveals the power of humility.

Only the strong soul who can be humble. He was like growing rice contains more humble menunduk.Orang can recognize and honor excellence lain.Ia people can make people feel okay on it and makes people who do not feel insecure underneath.

3. Fidelity

Already scarce and very high harganya.Orang faithful always to be trusted and relied upon. He always kept his promise, has a strong commitment, self-sacrifice and do not like treason.

4. People who are positive

Always try to see things from a positive lens, even in a bad situation though. He'd rather talk about the good rather than despair, more likely to seek a solution. He always tried to understand and appreciate other people rather than frustrating, rather than condemn praise, etc..

5. Because not everyone is blessed with cheerful temperament, then it should not be construed fun facial expressions and body, but the attitude of the heart.

Cheerful person is one who can enjoy life, do not like to complain and always striving for excitement. She can laugh at the situation of others, as well as himself. He's got the potential to entertain and encourage others.

6. The person in charge

Will implement their obligations seriously. If you make a mistake, he dared to admit. When a failure, he will not be looking for scapegoats to blame, even if he felt disappointed and hurt, he will not blame anyone. He realized that he alone is responsible for any experienced and felt.

7. Confidence

Allows one to receive him as such, respect themselves and respect others. Confident people adapt easily to new environments and situations.

He knows what to do and do it well.

8. Greatness of soul

Can be seen from one's ability to forgive others. People with big hearts do not let himself be ruled by hatred and hostility. When facing difficult times he remains bullish, not letting himself drift into sadness and despair.

9. The people who "Easy Going" considers life lightly.

He does not like to exaggerate small problems. Even tried to downplay major problems. He does not like to bring up the past and do not want to worry about the future. He did not want a headache and stress with the problems that are beyond their control.

10. Empathy

Is a very admirable trait. People who empathize not only a good listener, but can also put yourself in someone else. When there is a conflict he is always looking for the best solution for both parties, does not like to impose their own opinions and desires. He always tried to understand and appreciate other people.

Blackberry battery is unreliable. But that's the risk that must be faced by most smart phones, including Blackberry.

To anticipate, there are some tips you can use to your Blackberry more durable:


1. Turn off unused features like wifi and bluetooth.

2. Screen brightness can be set to the lowest level.

3. Setting the backlight time out as quickly as possible.

4. When the handheld is not used, it helps activate the standby mode.

5. Select one of the network only as a 'path' for Blackberry operates (either 3G or 2G only). If you are in areas that do not have a network signal, do not take risks. Just turn off your Blackberry because your device will automatically perform a search signal. This is an increasingly suck up a lot of battery power.


6. Usage is very interesting ringtones. But sometimes the ringtone used in conjunction with vibration. Use both allegedly requires considerable battery power. Therefore, it is better if you use just one feature, ring tone or vibrate.

7. If you are using a ringtone or vibrate, use LED indicator does not seem too influential in Blackberry. Therefore, if the LED indicator is positioned in the off state, the process can be made more efficient batteries.

8. It is better if you set up email and SMS that goes into the device. Predicted, the quantity of information access into the Blackberry will affect battery life. The more email / sms coming sooner then Blackberry is experiencing low battery.

9. Set your BlackBerry device to turn on and off automatically.

10. Keep the battery connections. Every few months, use a cotton swab or dry cloth to clean the metal contacts on the battery and the device.

11. Delete the original message when you send a reply.

12. Send a message to multiple contacts using Add To, Add Cc, or Add Bcc.

13. Turn off the flash (flash) on the camera.

14. Close your third-party applications from the application menu when you are finished using it.

15. Change your browser options for animated graphics so that they repeat less often on web pages.

In essence, the more often you operate Blackberry pet then you also have to be willing to face the risk of draining the battery faster. But fast battery low risk also experienced by almost all smartphones. To overcome this, it helps if you always provide backup battery is fully charged, to avoid the device off in the middle of your office work.

Blackberry battery is unreliable. But that's the risk that must be faced by most smart phones, including Blackberry.
To anticipate, there are some tips you can use to your Blackberry more durable:


1. Turn off unused features like wifi and bluetooth.

2. Screen brightness can be set to the lowest level.

3. Setting the backlight time out as quickly as possible.

4. When the handheld is not used, it helps activate the standby mode.

5. Select one of the network only as a 'path' for Blackberry operates (either 3G or 2G only). If you are in areas that do not have a network signal, do not take risks. Just turn off your Blackberry because your device will automatically perform a search signal. This is an increasingly suck up a lot of battery power.


6. Usage is very interesting ringtones. But sometimes the ringtone used in conjunction with vibration. Use both allegedly requires considerable battery power. Therefore, it is better if you use just one feature, ring tone or vibrate.

7. If you are using a ringtone or vibrate, use LED indicator does not seem too influential in Blackberry. Therefore, if the LED indicator is positioned in the off state, the process can be made more efficient batteries.

8. It is better if you set up email and SMS that goes into the device. Predicted, the quantity of information access into the Blackberry will affect battery life. The more email / sms coming sooner then Blackberry is experiencing low battery.

9. Set your BlackBerry device to turn on and off automatically.

10. Keep the battery connections. Every few months, use a cotton swab or dry cloth to clean the metal contacts on the battery and the device.

11. Delete the original message when you send a reply.

12. Send a message to multiple contacts using Add To, Add Cc, or Add Bcc.

13. Turn off the flash (flash) on the camera.

14. Close your third-party applications from the application menu when you are finished using it.

15. Change your browser options for animated graphics so that they repeat less often on web pages.

In essence, the more often you operate Blackberry pet then you also have to be willing to face the risk of draining the battery faster. But fast battery low risk also experienced by almost all smartphones. To overcome this, it helps if you always provide backup battery is fully charged, to avoid the device off in the middle of your office work.

Blackberry battery is unreliable. But that's the risk that must be faced by most smart phones, including Blackberry.

To anticipate, there are some tips you can use to your Blackberry more durable:


1. Turn off unused features like wifi and bluetooth.

2. Screen brightness can be set to the lowest level.

3. Setting the backlight time out as quickly as possible.

4. When the handheld is not used, it helps activate the standby mode.

5. Select one of the network only as a 'path' for Blackberry operates (either 3G or 2G only). If you are in areas that do not have a network signal, do not take risks. Just turn off your Blackberry because your device will automatically perform a search signal. This is an increasingly suck up a lot of battery power.


6. Usage is very interesting ringtones. But sometimes the ringtone used in conjunction with vibration. Use both allegedly requires considerable battery power. Therefore, it is better if you use just one feature, ring tone or vibrate.

7. If you are using a ringtone or vibrate, use LED indicator does not seem too influential in Blackberry. Therefore, if the LED indicator is positioned in the off state, the process can be made more efficient batteries.

8. It is better if you set up email and SMS that goes into the device. Predicted, the quantity of information access into the Blackberry will affect battery life. The more email / sms coming sooner then Blackberry is experiencing low battery.

9. Set your BlackBerry device to turn on and off automatically.

10. Keep the battery connections. Every few months, use a cotton swab or dry cloth to clean the metal contacts on the battery and the device.

11. Delete the original message when you send a reply.

12. Send a message to multiple contacts using Add To, Add Cc, or Add Bcc.

13. Turn off the flash (flash) on the camera.

14. Close your third-party applications from the application menu when you are finished using it.

15. Change your browser options for animated graphics so that they repeat less often on web pages.

In essence, the more often you operate Blackberry pet then you also have to be willing to face the risk of draining the battery faster. But fast battery low risk also experienced by almost all smartphones. To overcome this, it helps if you always provide backup battery is fully charged, to avoid the device off in the middle of your office work.

Blackberry battery is unreliable. But that's the risk that must be faced by most smart phones, including Blackberry.

To anticipate, there are some tips you can use to your Blackberry more durable:


1. Turn off unused features like wifi and bluetooth.

2. Screen brightness can be set to the lowest level.

3. Setting the backlight time out as quickly as possible.

4. When the handheld is not used, it helps activate the standby mode.

5. Select one of the network only as a 'path' for Blackberry operates (either 3G or 2G only). If you are in areas that do not have a network signal, do not take risks. Just turn off your Blackberry because your device will automatically perform a search signal. This is an increasingly suck up a lot of battery power.


6. Usage is very interesting ringtones. But sometimes the ringtone used in conjunction with vibration. Use both allegedly requires considerable battery power. Therefore, it is better if you use just one feature, ring tone or vibrate.

7. If you are using a ringtone or vibrate, use LED indicator does not seem too influential in Blackberry. Therefore, if the LED indicator is positioned in the off state, the process can be made more efficient batteries.

8. It is better if you set up email and SMS that goes into the device. Predicted, the quantity of information access into the Blackberry will affect battery life. The more email / sms coming sooner then Blackberry is experiencing low battery.

9. Set your BlackBerry device to turn on and off automatically.

10. Keep the battery connections. Every few months, use a cotton swab or dry cloth to clean the metal contacts on the battery and the device.

11. Delete the original message when you send a reply.

12. Send a message to multiple contacts using Add To, Add Cc, or Add Bcc.

13. Turn off the flash (flash) on the camera.

14. Close your third-party applications from the application menu when you are finished using it.

15. Change your browser options for animated graphics so that they repeat less often on web pages.

In essence, the more often you operate Blackberry pet then you also have to be willing to face the risk of draining the battery faster. But fast battery low risk also experienced by almost all smartphones. To overcome this, it helps if you always provide backup battery is fully charged, to avoid the device off in the middle of your office work.